I get awkward when someone compliments me and I don’t know what to say. Someone wished me a happy birthday once and I responded, “same to you.” Compliments are gifts. Receive gracefully and simply say, Thank you. Don’t say “I know.” Don’t be a twat. What do you know? True humility is being able to … Continue reading How to take Compliments

Being fooled does not make you a fool. You only become a fool when you continuously fall for the same shit. You are responsible for your life. You can’t keep blaming someone else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on. It’s your fault you’re stagnant. The only games that should be played in … Continue reading How to avoid getting Played

Suffering is best enjoyed in silence. I’m currently suffering from NDTDA. It’s a rare disease that loosely translates to No Desire To Do Anything Syndrome. I was first diagnosed as a toddler, the doctor promised my parents that I would outgrow it in the end. I’m glad to announce that in 2022, the doctor has … Continue reading The need for Suffering

The best time to relax is the time when you don’t have the time for it. Late for work? Get a few more hours sleep under your belt, you’ve earned it. Let’s face it, you’re already late. The best you can do is show up and be alert for the rest of the day. Start … Continue reading How to Truly Relax

You’re a Queen, act like it. Sometimes you just have to throw on a crown and remind them who they’re dealing with. When a man opens a car door for his wife, it’s either a new car or a new wife. Ideally you should only open doors for granny. A lesson I learned growing up, … Continue reading Her Majesty