I find it manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours” as if when we are happy and being kind we are fake. You could be the nicest most charming person ever, then the second you get mad it’s like you let go of the facade and start becoming the most disrespectful person ever. The way a person treats you when they’re angry is very telling of their character. Life is too short to let stupid people manipulate you.
Anger shouldn’t change the level of respect you have for someone. Getting angry isn’t the issue, it’s how you express your anger. Manipulative people will say you’re too sensitive when they’re really just assholes disrespecting you. Whining is a form of manipulation, people will give anything to make you shut up.

Some of you think you’ll make great partners because you don’t cheat but don’t realize you’re manipulative, inconsiderate, have poor communication skills, unappreciative and selfish. This is just as toxic as cheating. Manipulative people do not understand the concept of boundaries. Nothing is untouchable to them. Everything about a movie is manipulated.
When you know what a man wants, you know who he is, and how to move him. Manipulation is when they say “after all I’ve done for you” to guilt-trip you, control you and make you prove your worth. Women love that line. And it’s funny because they only bought you a pair of underwear. Half of the people lie with their lips, the other half with their tears.
Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words. Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect. Belief can be manipulated, only knowledge is dangerous. The only way to win with a toxic person is not to play. Sweetheart, you can’t change him. His parents already tried and failed, who do you think you are?
Dear love, I’ve been doing this for a long time; manipulating people to get my way. That’s why you think you love me. Because I’ve broken you down and built you back up to believe it. It wasn’t an accident. Once you leave this behind you’ll see that. If they do it often, it isn’t a mistake; it’s just their behaviour.
I’m not a manipulator, I like to think of myself more as an outcome engineer. If you are an approval addict, your behaviour is as easy to control as that of any other junkie. All a manipulator needs to do is a simple two-step process: Give you what you crave, and then threaten to take it away. Every drug dealer in the world plays this game. Imagine after reading all of this, you still don’t leave me a comment.
Shame on you
Gottfried. All rights reserved
You hit the hammer right on it’s target. Earlier today I wrote an article on something similar but this time a bit more streamlined. This is giving me so much joy because I know so many are suffering from this and are suffering others with this.
https://qenntalks.wordpress.com/2022/05/16/dont-you-know-you-are-a-christian/
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They used to call me Joseph the carpenter for the amount of nails I drove home.
I’d definitely check it out
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Hahaha…I see what you did there!
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Of course, you have eyes 😂
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🤣🤣🤣
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😂😂
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Hello,
If this not so much to ask, I attempted putting together a poem for the first time. I’d like you to look and if there are pointers I’d gladly appreciate it. Criticisms are highly welcomed. Thanks https://qenntalks.wordpress.com/2022/05/17/the-whisper/
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Haha, I’ll be sure to take a look
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Thanks
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You’re welcome Kenneth
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all the thing you have mentioned i wish i would know this before blaming myself for everything. i began to doubt myself for everything that all those incident was because of my short temper but now i know leaving a manipulative person behind is the best we can do.
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Yeah, they make you feel miserable for simply existing
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Right🙂
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Rise above it all
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absolutely 💫
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Love that for you ❤️
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Wow, I love what you said here!!👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
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Glad you enjoyed the read
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Yess!!😄
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Thanks aplenty
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No problem!!😁
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Never ever 😁
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The weirdest bit about this is that lots of people don’t know they are manipulative
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Yeah, they don’t have the slightest clue
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Ave really had to deal with people using my reactions to their disrespect to justify situations, and am sick of it ,taking zero manipulation ‼️great write up.
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That’s the spirit baby 🤗
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Yess yess❗
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😅🤗
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You’re welcome
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You’re welcome
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It’s the last part for me. You’re so not manipulative at all😃
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Not at all 😅
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Great piece, I have seen this in relationships, very unhealthy.
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It’s never a good sign
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Agree not a good way to live. Really enjoyed your pieces. Thank you.
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Thank you for reading. Love your comments
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Manipulation and outcome engineering at its best 👏😅😁
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haha, I’m glad you fell for it
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Hook line sinker 😅😄😂
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No shame 😂😂😂😂
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None at all 😅😂 I was referring to you writing a whole blog about it 🤣🤣
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Haha, oh my bad
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