There’s always some truth behind just kidding. Knowledge behind I don’t know. Emotion behind I don’t care, and pain behind it’s okay. So pay close attention to how people feel. It’s why I like to hang around mute people. They don’t say much. And that’s okay.
Screaming at children over their grades, especially to the point of tears is child abuse. Pure and simple. It’s not funny and it’s not good parenting. It is a crushing, scarring and disastrous experience for the child. And that’s why my kid doesn’t go to school.
You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings , ignores your boundaries and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go. That’s where the shotgun comes in.
When someone treats you like crap, just remember there’s something wrong with them, not you. Normal people don’t go around destroying people’s lives. They get married to each other and focus on destroying the offspring they bring into the world through the miracle of birth.
Toxic people make you think you’re holding a grudge when you’re really holding a boundary. Narcissists don’t change because they don’t want to change. They want to keep on using and abusing because it gets them the attention they so badly crave. That’s why I pay attention, it’s my intention that they never truly heal.
At any given moment, you have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end. In fairy tales, there is always a Prince Charming and a bad guy. In real life, Prince Charming is the bad guy. Break free from the delusion. If you have to enforce your ideas, your ideas are worthless.
People who claim that they’re evil are usually no worse than the rest of us. It’s people who claim that they’re good, or anyway better than the rest of us, that you should be wary of. Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results. Insanity runs in my family.
It practically gallops
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So absolute truth in these points, since the first step for us while dealing toxicity is to move away from it soon, so that I does not impact our well being especially mental and emotional ! 🙏🙏 Great writeup
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Yeah, a lot of times people just stay there and do nothing. This is the strength they need
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Yup need to move away, as there are amazing experiences and people waiting ahead to make life better.
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There’s eight billion or more of us. We shouldn’t let toxic people hold us to hostage
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yeah if I saw this post earlier I would have had the guts to drop out of school, now I’m in a toxic relationship with Lagos traffic commuting from work. where is the survivor’s fund pls
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Haha, the only thing worse than an ugly commute is poverty.
Stay in school kids 😂
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There’s always some truth behind just kidding. Knowledge behind I don’t know. Emotion behind I don’t care, and pain behind it’s okay.
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It’s true. If you look hard enough, you’ll see.
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Great writing…!💐🙏🏾
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Thanks!!
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“.. your ideas are worthless.” Now, that was below the belt, and I wish. I have the balls to walk away. 🙂
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You just have to grow a pair. They’re not too difficult to grow 😅
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You say that sir, because you are equipted with a pair of your own. So please, don’t take them for granted, since my half of the population is to busy giving birth to more balls.. heck, I have no idea where I’m going with this.. but hell, it’s fun 🙂
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Hahaha, I grew these balls myself 🤣🤣🤣
There’s always organ change 🤣
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New dangling bits means a completely new wardrobe and I’m too set in my way! I’m going to stand my ground, hold firm and high my worthless ideas!
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It’s a fashionable choice. You should at least consider it! It’s not such a worthless idea
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Banter this is👌👌….behind the humour you can still see the truth
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Yup. Even people that make jokes at your expense
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Hmmmm. Let me do some soul searching
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You’re toxic.
End of story 🤣
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I always say “it’s okay” when I’m hurt and tired of explaining why, too, so I can relate.
Plus, one of the sweetest people I know just said they couldn’t tell if I’m toxic or not! What do I do?!
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It does help if you make one last attempt when things are a bit calm to carefully explain your side of the situation.
Do better. Be better. Less words. More action.
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In the end we are all just after one thing which is to be Happy
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The pursuit of happiness. Man’s endless race.
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But there’s no knowledge behind my “I don’t know”🤔
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Haha, how are you claiming to be an air head on Joe Biden’s internet?
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