The need for Suffering

Suffering is best enjoyed in silence. I’m currently suffering from NDTDA. It’s a rare disease that loosely translates to No Desire To Do Anything Syndrome. I was first diagnosed as a toddler, the doctor promised my parents that I would outgrow it in the end. I’m glad to announce that in 2022, the doctor has been proven wrong.

Sometimes the only way around suffering is to go straight through it. Why bother asking for help when you can charge right through the chaos. What doesn’t kill you now will make you stronger in the end. The only antidote to mental suffering is physical pain. Want to be truly free? Try hitting your head on a concrete wall multiple times. Pain is your dearest friend, it’s always there for you.

To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering. A lot of people go through a lot and imagine there is a meaning to it. There’s no hidden meaning. The Universe is doing its best to frustrate you into giving up. It’s an exclusive form of natural selection and you’re the guinea pig in this control experiment.

Suffering is humbling. It pays to know how to get your butt kicked. Suffering is like anything else. Live with it long enough, you learn to like the taste. We are healed of suffering only by experiencing it to the full. So if you’ve only suffered halfway, you need to go back to the beginning and get it done right this time. No shortcuts!

Some people are suffering and you’ll never know because they suffer in silence. But not me, I’m screaming as loud as I possibly can. Out of suffering emerges the strongest souls, the most massive characters that are seared with scars. I’ll take solace in the fact that pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. If you’re not suffering right now, you’re not intelligent.

The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the one that is worth suffering for. True suffering is coming home after a long day to discover your sibling has eaten the food you hid in the freezer. Now you know nobody in the house can be trusted. Suffering is an extraordinary teacher. You suddenly come up with new and creative ways to hide your food around the house.

Doctors have just discovered a food that can cause grief and suffering years after it’s been eaten. It’s called a Wedding Cake. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.

Suffer, you deserve it.

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168 thoughts on “The need for Suffering

  1. Oh Dear Lord An
    Anti-Suffering DiSEaSE
    First World Problems Now
    of Going in For A Quarterly
    Maintenance Check to Make

    Sure i Am Not
    Getting too Happy
    Darn What A Dilemma
    Star Struck Disease Potentially

    Spiraling Out of Control into
    Super Nova Explosions of What

    my Wife Describes As Something
    Yet She Still Doesn’t Have A Label For me

    Yet at Least one that
    is Not Pejorative HAha…

    True i Rather
    Go Without
    Words to Cover me

    Yet Hey Hehe This is
    Just a Hobby to Rest
    my Dancing Feet “Whoa! Nelly!”
    17,222 MiLES NoW iN Public Approaching
    A 109TH Month Anniversary on September 26th

    i Ain’t Gonna Lie Though
    i Embrace Pain as One
    of my Dearest FRiEnDS

    Mileage Does Pile Up
    For Minor Self-Made Repairs..:)

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                  1. Better Yet HAHa MaKinG
                    An Old New Renaissance
                    Art Out Of Grand-Dad-Bod WHeRE Poems Are
                    Dedicated to
                    Hidden Treasures
                    EXPoSinG WitH SMiles
                    No SuFFeRinG iN
                    Golden Ages New

                    NoW Except For
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                    As Words Flow
                    Over SuFFeRinG
                    🌊 🌀🌲🏝☺️🤣
                    Dry Wit FloodS oN🌊
                    JusT A BanTeRinG RinG 📱

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                    1. Doing my Best
                      To Keep IT PG
                      Rated These Days
                      At Least Hehe As A
                      “Male Dancer” Balance
                      Key To Reducing Inertia
                      Key To Reducing All
                      Suffering in
                      Nature
                      Existence
                      Indeed Do Bruce
                      Lee Water Better Yet
                      ALWaYS MoVinG Be
                      Air Wind Free SPiRiTinG

                      Effortless
                      In Wu Wei
                      Ease Dancing
                      A TiGHT Rope
                      HiGHeR
                      And HiGHeR
                      STiLL Embracing
                      Fall Leaves Greening
                      Frozen Winter Soul
                      Soils Greening Spring
                      SuMMeR FLoWeRS
                      Keeping our
                      Christmas
                      Trees 🌲 Uo
                      Year Round 🎄
                      ALWaYS CoLoRinG
                      Newer LiGHTS of BLiSS 🎅 🙌🌀🏝☺️

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              1. Hehe Just
                Practicing
                An Art of
                Brevity One
                Word New Concisely
                MaKinG Words FRiEnDS
                Hehe It’s Like iMAGiNaRY
                Lovers They
                Never Let
                You Down
                And Make
                Your Suffer
                Haha Except
                For Some Religions

                Of
                Course
                So i Am
                BeGiNNiNGANeW🌀🙏🙌😇

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  2. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.

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  3. Suffer in silence? Can’t be me. I tried it once and it didn’t work out for me. Why suffer in silence when you can drag family and friends into it? Where’s the fun?

    I think I have NDTDA. That explains how I’ve been living all these years.

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