Saying “no” is an art form, often best delivered with a hint of humor to avoid guilt. It’s only by saying NO that you can concentrate on the things that are really important. You can be a good person with a kind heart and still say no. Don’t let guilt eat you up.
Here are some ways to politely say no. “I’ll have to take a rain check,” “I’m flattered, but I’ll have to sit this one out,” or my personal favorite, “I’m sorry, I’m unable to fit this in”. I love “I would love to say yes, but I actually wouldn’t love to say yes”. All these work if you just smile.

By saying no, it becomes easy to protect your time and still keep things light. “That sounds like fun, but I’m going to be extremely busy not doing that” would crush anyone. I tried to say no to gin but it is 40% stronger than me. Always say no to doing things.
My best month is No-vember. An annual event where I say no to everything. Don’t even ask. To be happy is to wisely use the power of saying NO to some people. Don’t be afraid to disappoint people who only conveniently remember you when they want something from you.
“No” is a complete sentence. It does not require justification or explanation. When you say yes to others, make sure you aren’t saying no to yourself. If you say yes too often, you’ll likely fall into the trap of saying yes to the good while simultaneously saying no to the best.
There is no angry way to say ‘no bubbles’. If I ever say, “Do you want me to be honest?” Say No. Well you know what they say: if you don’t have anything nice to say about anybody, come sit by me. If you’re badly in need of help and you conclude I’m the only one left to help…
How about no?
©️ Gottfried. All rights reserved
Saying no in relationships is as good as hanging that relationship where the no was said. An harmless word but destructive once uttered.
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But sometimes you need to ask yourself who you are caring for. Them or you!
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Oh Where Did the
Hope of Nope Go
Mr Gottfried Sad It is
When All that’s Left of
Right Is Yes Men and or Women
For Whatever Dasturdly Deeds
Come Next
Just Like
The Year
Of the Lie and
Decade too of Course
Not Unlike A Seagull Flying
Over a Cuckoo’s Nest my
Eggs are Spread in a Better
Place Star Seeds and Flowers too hehe…
And of Course Real Human Angels With Wings
of
Truth…
Other than that
“Just ring: 3-6, 2-4, 3-6, hey
I lead a life of crime
Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheap)
Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheap)
Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheep)
Dirty deeds and they’re done dirt cheap
Dirty deeds and they’re done dirt cheap”
-AC/DC
Indeed Just
Say No Yes to
Dirty DeedS iNDeeD..:)
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When the seagulls follow the trawler, it is because they think sardines will be thrown into the sea.
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I’m too nice… I need to start saying “NO”.
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You could try it!
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i have been a yes person,but after reading this I think I need more of no than yes ,this is my favorite ❤️thank u
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You’re welcome dear 🤗
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Be bold to say No!
No justification or explanation.
I ❤️👆💯
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Just NO! 😂
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A question by definition has more than one answer. NO is one of them. People should accept that. 🤣😎🙃
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Some people refuse (I’m people) 😅
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I don’t accept your refusal! 🤣😎🙃
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Life gets 10x better when you know when to say NO and move on.
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10x is putting it mildly!
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No😊
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YES 😁
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Another fine one. 40% gin. So that’s what those percentages mean!
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