Nope

Saying “no” is an art form, often best delivered with a hint of humor to avoid guilt. It’s only by saying NO that you can concentrate on the things that are really important. You can be a good person with a kind heart and still say no. Don’t let guilt eat you up. 

Here are some ways to politely say no. “I’ll have to take a rain check,” “I’m flattered, but I’ll have to sit this one out,” or my personal favorite, “I’m sorry, I’m unable to fit this in”. I love “I would love to say yes, but I actually wouldn’t love to say yes”. All these work if you just smile. 

By saying no, it becomes easy to protect your time and still keep things light. “That sounds like fun, but I’m going to be extremely busy not doing that” would crush anyone. I tried to say no to gin but it is 40% stronger than me. Always say no to doing things. 

My best month is No-vember. An annual event where I say no to everything. Don’t even ask. To be happy is to wisely use the power of saying NO to some people. Don’t be afraid to disappoint people who only conveniently remember you when they want something from you. 

“No” is a complete sentence. It does not require justification or explanation. When you say yes to others, make sure you aren’t saying no to yourself. If you say yes too often, you’ll likely fall into the trap of saying yes to the good while simultaneously saying no to the best. 

There is no angry way to say ‘no bubbles’. If I ever say, “Do you want me to be honest?” Say No. Well you know what they say: if you don’t have anything nice to say about anybody, come sit by me. If you’re badly in need of help and you conclude I’m the only one left to help…

How about no? 

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18 thoughts on “Nope

  1. Oh Where Did the
    Hope of Nope Go

    Mr Gottfried Sad It is
    When All that’s Left of

    Right Is Yes Men and or Women

    For Whatever Dasturdly Deeds

    Come Next

    Just Like

    The Year
    Of the Lie and
    Decade too of Course

    Not Unlike A Seagull Flying
    Over a Cuckoo’s Nest my

    Eggs are Spread in a Better
    Place Star Seeds and Flowers too hehe…

    And of Course Real Human Angels With Wings

    of
    Truth…

    Other than that

    “Just ring: 3-6, 2-4, 3-6, hey
    I lead a life of crime

    Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheap)
    Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheap)
    Dirty deeds (Done dirt cheep)
    Dirty deeds and they’re done dirt cheap
    Dirty deeds and they’re done dirt cheap”

    -AC/DC

    Indeed Just
    Say No Yes to

    Dirty DeedS iNDeeD..:)

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